These are valuable lessons I’ve learned about autonomy, resentment and the hidden cost of control in personal relationships
There’s a hard truth I’ve come to realize over the years, and it’s one I wish I’d understood sooner:If you don’t give the people around you the autonomy and the means to pursue what they truly want, they will resent you. At first, this resentment might seem subtle. A comment here, a sigh there. But…